whispering sikhs: race religion and politics

"if i was dating a bi guy, it would make no difference whatsover to me, i think it would be completly hypocritical. the only difference it might make is that i would feel closer to him because he understands the struggle bi/gay people go through, maybe even more so than women."

bullshit. i mean like.. yeah you talk about the struggle of gay / bi people, but i mean dude, look at this place, look at the resource you hav.e now imagine if instead of gay you were a TCK. guess what? there'slike no resources for people of that distinction. and unlike many "curious" "in the closet" gay people, there's never really a time where TCK's can escape their life. it's a developmental thing, the kids are shifted places and are given two cultures but having lived amongst the pair they're neither of either so they're a hybrid third with the possibility of being able to freely pick amongst any culture and society. that lack of belonging and ownership means theyre relatively free agents to be able to shop amongst the worlds cultures and beliefs which is nice. additionally, given my religious upbringing in two different sects, i feel the same thing about spirituality. its a shopping cart there for me to peruse and find the one im most attached to. many people dont have such an ability, such an oppertunity, to be able to find a theology and way of life that fits them unhindered. its nice. but the thing is, its a solitary path, and you can say what you like about gay/bi struggles, but the struggles of TCK's are just as badif not worse given the fact that there jut sint any organized support for people like me. so when you talk about how "people understand the struggle of gays" or whatever... it just makes me feel like you're taking liberties. because at the end of the day, to go t oa site where folk can sit and support one another, a place where the entire status quo is in line with your way of thinking, how can you sit there and bemoan the state of things when you have such a strong and supportive community and culture? its just retarded if you ask me. gay people ar elargely selfish bastards, they may try and talk about how noble their quest is for freedom, but they would never extend such a helping hand if it were to benefit a group other than their own. TCk's certainly don't see any love. so don't expet me to extend my sympathies to you when you're crying about how the world is "mean" to you. it does that, thats how it works. it wont change, but you can support folk through it. however your community seems selfishly to only want to support their single brand of existence. how closed minded. fucking rediculous.